Tuesday, December 31, 2013

An Early Night for New Year's Eve

Seeing as we have to be in our houses by 8pm today and yeasterday we had the Changes Meeting for most of the day in Maipú, President told us to work yesterday and take today as our Pday. So, sorry for the day-late letter, but that´s why :)

Today I bought blueberries, strawberries and bananas and put them in the freezer to make juices (is that how you spell it?) with them. Bagels are incredibly hard to find, and super expensive here :/ And Cream Cheese, sadly, doesn´t exist :/ But I will try the breakfast burritos! :) And if my punishment is drinking that nasty drink that could be considered cruel and unusual punishment, well, I am now officially on an "eat everything in sight" diet :D  (mom told Daylon that if he doesn't start eating more she will put him on protein shakes when he gets home)

To all the kids: Good luck in your sporting adventures this year! I will be praying for each one of you to be successful :) (p.s. you should let me know when there are more videos of Trev playing cuz I love watching them)

So, like I mentioned above, we have to be in the house at 8pm. Living in an apartment building, being on the roof still counts. However, at midnight, everyone gives hugs and champagne....so E` Sanchez and I will be sitting in our apartment, looking out a window that faces the opposite direction of the fireworks, and, in all honesty, probably sleeping by 10pm :P Happy New Year! Hahahaha

Lots of love,
- Elder Daylon Crider
p.s. There are new photos :)
Our Chilean Christmas hats

New agenda vs 6-wk-old agenda

Friday, December 27, 2013

Elder Crider's Christmas Poem

written 11/25/13

In one month more
It's Christmas Day,
But as a missionary oh so poor,
We'll decorate in our own way.

No luminous tree will grace the room
And more than one present each? If that!
In place of a tree, we'll use a broom,
And where a star should be, we'll put a hat.

A few days before the big day,
With other missionaries we'll meet
As a makeshift family to say:
"Merry Christmas! Let's eat!"

Christmas, however, should not be
About what we get or spend,
But should be passed with family,
And setting a memorable trend.

So as my gift to you,
I give you this:
The Book of Mormon is true,
And to all, a hug and a kiss.


(Luckily he got a few decorations in the mail a week or so after he wrote this and didn't have t use the broom after all, haha)

Monday, December 23, 2013

All is Well

WHAT??? There`s a picture of Dad!?!?!?! I didn`t think it was possible to snap a photo of even the shadow of such an ellusive creature!! Hahahaha, Love you Dad! (from Mom: yes, this week's email from me included a photo of Dad. I had no idea he'd be so excited!)

Aaanyway, I sure am glad I`m sitting down here in the Southern Hemisphere, nice and warm (about 85-90º), drinking banana milk and walking around in a short-sleeved shirt :) Not to rub it in or anything ;) haha
    Sorry to hear that everyone is so sick! Hopefully you can get over it to at least enjoy the Christmas activities :) ANNA - be greatful for teachers like that! I can promise you that as you move up, you`ll find less and less teachers willing to make exceptions. Then again, you are following in my footsteps, so just as long as Trevin doesn`t ruin my reputation, you`ll be fine as long as you do your best :) (from Mom: Annalyn missed almost the whole week of finals due to illness, and 2 of her teachers waived the exam and did not require her to make them up)

Mom, I hope you don`t mind, but I translated the Parabol (how do you even spell that in English??) of the Heavy Pack and that`s my gift to the families here for Christmas. I know it`ll touch perfectly at least one or two, so thank you in advance for sending me that :) I`ve found that when I come home at night, time permitting, I like to sit down and throw a few thoughts on paper. Usually I just keep them for myself, but when I hit a good note I`ll be sure to send it home :) (from Mom: I wrote the Parable of the Heavy Pack for Daylon's birthday, and it is posted below in a separate post if you want to read it)

Tell Dad that his example of (sometimes literally) getting up the next day and fighting the bull one more time (does that even make sense in English? It`s a phrase from Spain) is sometimes the sole reason I get up in the mornings.

MOM!! Before I forget - I need some new breakfast ideas. After almost a year of switching between eggs and cereal, I hope never to have those for breakfast again :P Although, the ironic part is that I bought a new box of cereal not two hours ago...go figure!

Congrats to Connie and the family. That makes, what? 4 kids now? 3? (from Mom: 4 beautiful children)

Hahaha, I like your idea for annual speech! You know, the next time I`m there for one of those, I`ll be married and be giving my own speech! How weird does that sound?? Hahaha (from Mom: we had our extended family party with the Crider side last night, and I told Daylon that I made up a fake story about how Jay was taking up clogging, etc)

Elder Thomas Sanchez (from Colombia) can speak and understand English, but at a 1st grader`s level. But I need to practice my English, so I`ll be glad to translate :)  (this is Daylon's companion that has no family writing to him on his mission - you can write to him at dearelder.com. The mission to select is Chile Santiago West)

Love you all, 
- Elder Daylon Crider



The Parable of the Heavy Pack

My birthday gift to Daylon this year included this story that I wrote for him:


Once upon a time there was a young man who served a wise and kind Master. Although the young man worked hard in the house of his Master, he was given everything he needed to be comfortable, and he was very happy.
                One day the Master called the young man to him and gave him an important errand. The young man was to deliver some items to a neighboring kingdom. The Master laid a pack on the young man’s back and began to fill it. As the pack became heavy, the young man asked, “Could I not have a donkey to carry this heavy load?”
                The Master said no.
                The young man was disheartened as his pack continued to grow heavier and heavier. “May I not have a companion to shoulder half the load, sir?” he cried.
                The Master seemed to have kindness in his eyes, but he again said no. It seemed that the young man would have to shoulder this burden alone.
                At length the young man was left by himself with his heavy pack, and he had no choice but to start out on the road to the neighboring kingdom. As he walked, his shoulders soon grew sore and his feet grew weary, and he began to wonder if he had misread his Master all these years, for this errand seemed nothing but cruel. Why could a donkey not be provided?!  Certainly there was no good reason the young man could not have some help with this burden, and the unfairness of it all threatened to overwhelm his heart with bitterness.
                As he plodded along, his back bent further and further under the weight of his pack. Soon he was doubled over and could see nothing but his sandaled feet and the dirt road beneath them. His discouragement grew, and hot tears streaked down his cheeks. His back and shoulders burned with searing pain, and relief seemed many miles down the road. Surely he could not endure.
                In his despair, the young man remembered some simple advice he had once heard, “It is better to look up.”
                The young man could not do much in his circumstances, but he decided he could do this. With great effort, he craned his neck under his burden so that he could look up and at least enjoy the sun and clouds above him while he walked. But when his eyes lifted, he was greeted by a shocking sight. The road he was plodding down had led him into a wilderness area, and instead of the beautiful clouds and sunshine he was expecting, he found he was surrounded by black and barren trees. Not a single leaf graced the trees. Instead, they were full of dead branches that stuck out in sharp points above his hunched back. Hideous, demonic  birds were flying around, screeching, and when they saw the young man’s eyes they flew straight for them, determined, it seemed, to peck them right out of his head.
                The young man gasped and quickly turned his head back down to the dirt. He wondered how he had been walking through this terrible place without fear, when he realized it was his pack. That heavy, heavy pack that had seemed such a burden to him was actually keeping him safe. By keeping his back bent low under the weight, the young man had avoided all the sharp branches and pointy beaks of this dangerous area.
                With sudden insight, he realized that his Master was, indeed, kind and wise. Had he given the young man the donkey he begged for, he would have walked this road with his back upright, and would likely have lost an eye on this journey, or worse.  The young man realized with quiet awe that His Master knew this road, and loved him enough to keep him safe.

                The young man continued his walk, but now his step was lighter, for he carried in his heart a deep gratitude for the pack on his back that he had once considered a burden. 

Monday, December 16, 2013

Let's all write to Elder S!

First off, mom - sorry, but Elder R sent your birthday letter last Tuesday :/ Just know it`s in the mail and I still love you!! Sorry!  (from Mom - that's so funny because I actually did get a letter from Daylon just a day or two after my birthday, but it was really short and didn't say happy birthday, and I thought it was a really lame bday letter, haha!)

Second - have I already sent something home entitled "The Weeping Man"?

E´ S (my comp) is a recent convert (a year and a half ago) and he`s not planning on Skyping with anyone for Christmas. That makes me incredibly sad (his mom was assasinated when he was 4 and he doesn`t know where his dad is so he grew up with his grandparents, but even though they support his choice to go on a mission, they aren`t making it a priority to talk to him).

The Church had just bought that property before I left, so I did know something about the new building. I`m surprised it`s up and running so fast! Less than a year!  (a new ward bldg in the neighborhood)

Speaking of the Gilbert Temple Open House...I`ve heard the Mesa Temple was going to close for a bit when Gilbert opens for some gutting and heavy reconstruction. Is that true? And if so, will the Mesa Temple be up and running by the time I get home??

I`m sure that Trevin will be starting for Mtn View. And he`s going to take them to State at the end of his Senior year where I`ll be sitting with front row seats. At least, that`s what I`m planning on!

All is well here in Chile. It`s getting more difficult to find and teach people because everyone is going "home for the holidays" which, in this area, means going back to Peru or Bolivia or some other foreign country :P

Lots of Love,
- Elder Daylon Crider
Who wouldn't want to Skype with that kid?!

Monday, December 9, 2013

Thoughts from the Liahona

A bit of news - Elder J. has changes today. Pres called Saturday night to tell him he`s going to the coast as a ZL, BUT he said he still hadn`t made a decision about a new DL here. So we`ll see what happens there.
Story behind the couch - the wall.

hahahaha, sorry, that was pretty lame :P But what happened with the couch is that a family was repainting their living room and the wife likes to buy all new furniture when they repaint a room, so they gave it to us :) There`s also two big chairs that match the couch, but I didn`t take pictures of that.

SO, I was reading in this month`s Liahona (the international version of the Ensign) and noticed a very big theme: The 2nd Coming. And they just released a new pamphlet called "My Family" about family history work. And with all the missionaries going out....this isn`t doctrine by any means, but based on what I know and from talking with other Elders, I put the Second Coming as happening as soon as 50 years, but before 100 years have passed. Just my personal thoughts on the matter.

I love you and pray for you all everyday,
- Elder Daylon Crider

Not a whole lot to eat for breakfast today...

Except a whole lot of candy!!

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Must be December, Mom's 2 days late posting this :)

So, I got a lot of packages last week (but (and sadly not surprising) Tricia´s still hasn´t come. Mail does come on Wednesday, though!) from:

Gpa/Gma/Kristin - A Halloween package (the Chilean mail system still appears to be catching up haha) and a wonderful little Christmas tree with two yet unopened gifts :) (But the letter kind of said it was my pj´s haha) My Colombian comps helped me set it up and everything :)

Mom - Hahahaha, two things about your package: 1) Oranges don´t ship well. I could only tell it was an orange because your letter said there was two. It was a weird fuzzy green, but surprisingly didn´t smell too bad. And 2) The Chileans robbed us of my USB drive. The package had postal tape on it, so it was obviously opened, and we still haven´t found the USB. But I went and picked up a 16GB from Kingston (my prefered brand) for only $16, which is a great deal in Chile!

Jenny - Don´t worry, your package got here safely :)

WHAT?!?! I have a letter coming from Trevin?? Is it the Second Coming???? hahahaha

So, mom asked " what would you say have been the best blessings or gifts your mission has given you so far? " Well....

Over this past year, I´ve learned many things about myself and the Gospel. But of all the things I want to share, I think the most important thing I´ve learned is found in Alma 7:11-12. Jesus Christ has suffered literally EVERYTHING and who would be more able to give us the help we need than someone who has "been there, done that" and knows what He wanted and needed in that moment and is able to give the necessary help to us. Also, the Atonement is real; Repentance works; Forgiveness is possible; And God knows and loves us personally and by name. He is at our side waiting to help us if we will but turn to Him and ask. "Seek and ye shall find, knock and it shall be opened unto you."; "In all thy ways acknolegde Him and He shall direct thy paths."
    Turning your life 100% over to God is not by any means an easy task. But when your heart is as determined as your mind to be obedient and serve God, then and only then will you experience a portion of the peace and joy that we can have in the Celestial Kingdom. And it is worth every sacrifice.

Love you all,
- Elder Daylon Crider